I’m working very hard every day, but things haven’t real worked out until now, look I’m trying to write more content for college students who wants to start their success story in college, I’m also building my skills in programming, I’m working hard…
But wait NZ, are you real working hard? Are you real giving your all? Are you? Be honest now because I see you have been lying to yourself all these times:
You wanted to connect with more tech bros, but how many numbers have you collected up to now, how many have you even tried to initiate a phone call with,
You say you wanted to do interviews with more college students to understand their struggles, give me updates on that
For sure you are not doing enough, you are doing few superficial things to be your witnesses who will defend you when you say, “I tried my best”.
If we would have called every tech guy we know, connect with them, ask them to connect us with other tech guys, if we did that every day would you be lonely in this field? would you not being able to find the best programmers to learn more stuff from them?
If every weekend we tried to meet with college students and just strike a conversation, how many things would you have discovered which are real challenges to students? risefromCollege would have been a complete repository for all the things students need to know to succeed, but did you do that?
These are just few examples, there are so many things which you are great at walking your way out, trying all you can not to feel guilty that you didn’t give your all
You know this real irritates me, for God’s sake, if you would have done all the things you said you’ll do, if you didn’t lie to yourself that you are trying your best when you are not, if you would even for once try to go even close to your limits of doing everything you can, we wouldn’t being here talking about this.
But have you even realized why all this happen?
It’s because you are afraid.
I know you might try to deny this, but that’s the truth. If you didn’t know this, now you have to put it into your mind: You are afraid because things are hard,
You know that mental pain you experience so often when you are working with things which are hard, things with a lot of friction and complexity?
Yeah, that’s the one thing you are afraid of, because you want to relax all the time, so deep down you always try to avoid anything that’s bring that pain:
It’s hard to talk with people, you say to yourself “what if they see me as a nagging person”,
Those crappy JS syntaxes, man they are hard “where is IG, let me go there first”, that’s what you do.
You run away from pain, because you are afraid of discomfort, you don’t like it.
Okay but let me tell you one thing, for anyone who would want to accomplish what we have always desired, if he could only do the things you are afraid of just 100 times, if he could embrace pain as part of the process, surely he will surpass your level right now 1000 times, and if he was a college student, everyday working hard and actively on things which can bring success while still in college, for sure he will #risefromCollege.
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